Gay essentials

Lube & Toy Care

What I use, why it stays in rotation, and who it’s best for.

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Swiss Navy Premium Water-Based Lubricant (8 oz)

My water-based default. In my experience it stays slick longer than the drugstore options I have tried. Check the product label and your condom and toy manufacturers' compatibility guidance.

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Swiss Navy Premium Silicone Lubricant (8 oz)

An option I prefer when water-based lubricant is not lasting. Check compatibility with your condoms and toys; silicone lubricant can damage some silicone toys.

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Antibacterial Toy Cleaner

Made for body-safe toys. Spray, rinse, air dry, and follow the toy maker's cleaning instructions.

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Breathable Storage Bags

I prefer keeping clean, dry toys separate. Follow each manufacturer's storage guidance, since material compatibility varies.

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